In a surprising development, Oscar-winning composer A.R. Rahman and his wife Saira Banu have announced their separation after nearly three decades of marriage. The couple, who tied the knot in an arranged marriage in 1995, issued a joint statement on Tuesday night, citing emotional challenges as the reason behind their decision.

Official Statement

The couple’s lawyer, Vandana Shah, shared their statement, which read:
"After many years of marriage, Mrs. Saira and her husband Mr. A.R. Rahman have made the difficult decision to separate. Despite their deep love for each other, the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap that neither party feels able to bridge at this time."

Saira also emphasized the pain of the decision and requested privacy as the family navigates this challenging chapter.

Children React to the News

Rahman and Saira share three children: Khatija, Rahima, and Ameen Rahman. Following the announcement, the children took to social media to share their thoughts:

• Ameen Rahman posted on Instagram Stories: "We kindly request everyone to respect our privacy during this time. Thank you for your understanding."
• Khatija, a singer, echoed similar sentiments, requesting that the matter be handled with privacy and respect.
• Rahima urged fans to keep the family in their prayers.

A 29-Year Journey

The couple’s marriage was arranged by Rahman’s mother, who played a pivotal role in choosing Saira as his life partner. In a past interview, Rahman shared that his mother initially considered Saira’s younger sister before settling on Saira, who admired his music even before they met.

Rahman described their relationship as one built on mutual respect and clear expectations, setting a strong foundation for their marriage. Their separation, therefore, comes as a shock to fans, given the deep understanding the couple had always portrayed.

Rahman’s Reflection

Taking to Twitter after the announcement, Rahman expressed his emotions in a heartfelt post:
"We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again. To our friends, thank you for your kindness and for respecting our privacy as we walk through this fragile chapter."

A Legacy Beyond Marriage

Despite their separation, Rahman and Saira’s partnership has left a profound legacy, including three talented children and a life of shared milestones. Fans around the world have expressed their shock and sadness but also admiration for the dignified way in which the couple has handled this personal matter.

As they move forward, their request for privacy underscores the importance of respecting the personal journeys of public figures, no matter how celebrated their lives may be.